Tuesday, July 20, 2010

PENATNYE MENUNGGU......

Alahai....
kenapa aku rasa masa sangat lambat berlalu...
nak tunggu 5 hari je lagi sebelum Mr. Hubby nak balik...
padahal 2 tahun boleh tunggu. tapi bile tinggal 5 hari rasa mcm 5 tahun.
kepala dah ting tong ngan anak2 yang demam.
dahlah tak nak makn ubat. bile dipaksa, jari mama yg jadi mangsa gigitan ganas anakanda.
nasib baek tgh demam. kalau tak tgn dah melayang dah.


geli hati bila die jerit " TOLONG!! LEPASKAN SAYA" taknak makan ubat punya pasal.
siap kena kunci kat luar. sian anak mami. merintih mintak tolong ngan abang sepupunye.
" ABANG, TOLONG"
ragam anak2 ku....

BABAH!!!
cepatlah balik!!!!




Monday, July 12, 2010

How To Maintain a Long distance Marriage

Marriage is a complicated relationship. Being apart physically makes a marriage even more challenging.
Time RequiredVaries
Here's How:
  1. The key, as it is in all relationships, is communication. Keep the lines of communication open on a daily basis.
  2. Being committed to one another and truly believing that your spouse belives in the marriage commitment is vital.
  3. A long distance marriage will fail if there is a lack of trust between the partners.
  4. Although you are apart from one another, make time for one another. You can do this by sending a letter, an email, writing in a journal, day dreaming about your spouse, or having an icq or chat conversation.
  5. Share your expectations about being apart from one another. Also share your expectations when you are close to being together again.
  6. Be honest about your concerns and fears about your separation.
  7. Try to daily dialogue with each other.
  8. Keep a daily journal.
  9. Give one another a scented pillow case or shirt to help keep your presence with them.
  10. Plan a trip or some fun activity (other than sex) to do when the two of you are back together.
  11. Use online communication to send emails, electronic cards, pictures, music, poems, and stories.
  12. Use icq or other instant messaging services.
  13. Camcorders can be great for being able to see one another or your children.
  14. Play online games together.
  15. Surprise each other once in a while with a phone call. Send care packages to each other now and then.
Tips:
  1. Don't assume that infidelity will occur because of your physical separation. Most long distance marriages do not have to deal with this heartache because of the love and commitment the spouses feel for one another.
  2. Since you can't read one another's non-verbal communication, use symbols or words or happy faces to describe your thoughts better.
  3. When you are back together, don't rush into getting things done around the house right away. Allow the returning spouse to have some time to adjust to being back home.
What You Need:
  • Commitment
  • Communication
  • Sense of Humor
  • Trust




By , About.com Guide

once in a lifetime


Dah lame tak menulis. bz mmglah bz, tp malas sebenonye. anyway, try menulis semula ni. nothing much to share but some experience that i can say, once in a lifetime opportunity.

Last March on the 13th, selamatlah kite sampai di bumi UK utk melawat hubby and sis in-law yg blaja di sana. mmg seronok sbb dpt rase duduk di negeri org. Byk pengalaman baru yg sungguh berharga dan insyaallah akan dikenang selamanya. These are some of the photos taken when i was there.


Lake at Hyde Park


buat snow boy pakai pinggan


di Midland Safari



Birmingham City


Selly Oak



Heathrow Airport, London

Salman Khan wax at Madamme Tussaud

Tower Bridge

mt. Cairngorm, Scotland

Thomas Land, Drayton Manor Park

Buckingham Palace

kalau ade rezeki nk g Gold Coast Australia plak. Mcm la byk no duitnye. Takpe berangan je dulu. manela tau esok2 ade rezeki plak. 







Tuesday, July 6, 2010